Grandma Dave

Here is the most “stylish” advice that I can give you….LOVE your loved ones! Don’t take life for granted, don’t take them for granted, cherish every moment, and let them know how much you love them. That is THE best “stylish” advice that I can ever give you – in my opinion.

My Grandma Dave passed away this weekend. And, my heart is broken. Grandma Dave gets her name from her real name, Arlene Davidson. Get it? Davidson…shortened to Dave? Makes total sense that she would be called Grandma Dave, right?

We were blindsided when she fell ill in November. She is one of the strongest women I know and very rarely got sick. So, when she fell ill and fell hard – we knew something was wrong. She fought a swift battle against cancer and lost…but, I think she was ok with that. She had an amazing strength and sense of peace about her….I can only wish I had an ounce of her strength, if I was put into a position like that. But, like I said, she handled it with such a peace about her. Her faith in God was amazing and I truly believe that is what got her through this time.

I have battled with various feelings throughout the last few months and in her last few days. Did she know I loved her? Did I spend enough time with her? I didn’t call her enough. I should have gotten back home more. The whole “shoulda-woulda-coulda” scenarios start running through my brain.

There is no turning back time. There is no “starting over”. I know deep down that Grandma knows I loved her – but, you start to second guess yourself when things like this happen. So….please listen to the advice I give you…..LOVE your loved ones! Don’t wait for a special occasion or event. Don’t wait to call. Don’t wait for anything. Other than God, no one knows how much time they have – so, live each moment to the fullest. Spend your life with the people you love. And, cherish every minute you get.

I love you, Grandma Dave! So much! My heart hurts! But, I know you are in a better place – free of pain and suffering! And, especially, after 34 years, you have been reunited with Grandpa. You are starting a whole new chapter in life ever after…and I’m so excited for you! I love you!

Love you, Grandma!